I've just added an article on "How to Save Money This Christmas". I've listed 20 points that will help make this Christmas a little easier financially - and may be even a little more fun. Click here to view: http://easterngifts.co.za/save-money-this-christmas-a-50.html.
Hope it helps!!!
Regards,
M.
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Wednesday, November 21, 2007
Thursday, November 15, 2007
Congratulations!
Hi, there
Congratulations to the winner of our R350.00 gift voucher newsletter competition. The details of the prize has been e-mailed to you.
For more information on who the winner is, log onto: http://easterngifts.co.za/gift-giving-step-program-a-49.html.
Also, Eastern Gifts and Things cc will be offering free gift wrapping on all purchases made through the site until Christmas! So, happy shopping!!!
Regards,
M.
Congratulations to the winner of our R350.00 gift voucher newsletter competition. The details of the prize has been e-mailed to you.
For more information on who the winner is, log onto: http://easterngifts.co.za/gift-giving-step-program-a-49.html.
Also, Eastern Gifts and Things cc will be offering free gift wrapping on all purchases made through the site until Christmas! So, happy shopping!!!
Regards,
M.
Tuesday, November 13, 2007
Last Day!!!
Hi, there
Just a friendly reminder that today is the last day to enter our newsletter competition. Tomorrow we do the draw and some lucky person will win a R350.00 gift voucher for Eastern Gifts and Things cc. Which I am sure will be nice and in time for Christmas!
All you have to do, is sign up to receive our bi-monthly newsletter. As easy as that - and you will stand in line to win this amazing gift voucher from Eastern Gifts! BUT, today is your last day to enter! Click on the link here: http://easterngifts.co.za/newsletter.php?osCsid=4adbe03d0274cb803d9526e555a20f04
Good luck,
Regards,
M.
Just a friendly reminder that today is the last day to enter our newsletter competition. Tomorrow we do the draw and some lucky person will win a R350.00 gift voucher for Eastern Gifts and Things cc. Which I am sure will be nice and in time for Christmas!
All you have to do, is sign up to receive our bi-monthly newsletter. As easy as that - and you will stand in line to win this amazing gift voucher from Eastern Gifts! BUT, today is your last day to enter! Click on the link here: http://easterngifts.co.za/newsletter.php?osCsid=4adbe03d0274cb803d9526e555a20f04
Good luck,
Regards,
M.
Monday, November 12, 2007
The Art of Gift Giving-a 10 Step Program
Hi, there
While, we don’t all have a natural flair for selecting the perfect gift for any occasion, help is at hand. I came across this article on gift giving, which I thought was pretty pertinent with Christmas just around the corner. For more information on the author (not me) and the article, click here: http://blog.cmariestationery.com/2006/05/art-of-gift-giving-10-step-program.html
“The Art of Gift Giving: A 10 Step Program
You're in a rut, a slump, a deep dark trench with no visible way out. Your gifts are no good, you've boycotted weddings and birthdays because you have no desire to purchase a gift, and you're already planning your holiday season getaway plan. When it comes to gift giving, my friend, you have a problem. Fear not. Follow this ten step program and begin the road to recovery. Watch as you emerge from your social cocoon and relish in your friends' admiration. Learn to enjoy giving gifts, and reap the rewards through strengthened relationships.
Step 1: Give gifts because you want to, not because you are obligated to do so. When you think of gift giving as a necessity, it automatically becomes an undesirable chore. Remind yourself that giving gifts is optional. Nothing requires you to do so. While society may have ingrained this thought in your mind, it's like leaving a tip for a waiter - if nothing merits a gift, then you have no obligation to give one.
Step 2: Take notes. Unless you were blessed with an incredible memory, keep notes throughout the year on appropriate gifts for people. If someone mentions a book that they've been dying to read, write it down. If a client made a comment about his favorite dessert, jot it down while it's fresh on your mind. When it comes time to give a gift, you'll appreciate having this information on hand, as it will make your gift search much easier when it comes time to selecting an appropriate gift.
Step 3: Celebrate the little things. Surprise people with an unexpected gift. These days, our mailboxes are bombarded with bills and junk mail, and there's nothing more pleasant than getting a small package without reason. Don't simply give gifts for standard occasions (birthdays, weddings, holidays); celebrate events that would otherwise go unnoticed. Share a friend's excitement over a new car by mixing her a CD with songs for the road. Congratulate a client on a promotion with a bottle of champagne. Such small gestures can have an enormous impact on a relationship, showing that you take notice of things that are important to other people with no expectation of reciprocity.
Step 4: Express yourself, your recipient, and your relationship. Remember, this is your one shot to give a gift to this person, on this date, for this occasion, so make it count. Don't waste this opportunity with something generic like a tie or bath products. They're overdone, and appear much less thoughtful than a gift that is geared specifically toward the particular event. Write down all of the characteristics of the recipient, of your relationship with them, and of the occasion, and begin to look for links to gifts. Gift giving is an art form, so embrace the opportunity to add in elements of your own personality as well. Incorporate your sense of humor or sentimental side, show off your photography skills, or share your love of writing. If you're giving gifts on behalf of an organization, incorporate the group's brand into your gifts. Define a way to make your gifts stand out and represent both sides of the relationship.
Step 5: Give something they would never buy themselves. There is nothing more satisfying than receiving a gift of pure luxury, excess, and indulgence. If you know someone loves the theater but tends to buy tickets in the back corner, allow them to enjoy a show while seated front and center. While certain circumstances may require you to give a necessity, spice it up with something fun. For example, when I first moved into my townhouse, my mom bought me (at my request) an Oreck vacuum cleaner. While I needed it, it wasn't a gift that I really wanted, but because she added in all sorts of fun scented carpet fresheners, I was actually excited about vacuuming...which I never thought possible.
Step 6: Keep the audience in mind. While you want a gift to be personal, think of the circumstances in which the gift will be given. This applies to both the recipient (i.e., don't give a Christmas ornament to a Jewish man in July) and those who will be witnessing the opening of the gift (don't give sexy lingerie to a woman when her parents are present).
Step 7: Present your gift well. Like anything in life, presentation can make or break your gift. Handing a Waterford crystal bowl over in a Wal-Mart bag doesn't have the same effect as when it's wrapped in beautiful paper, tied with coordinating ribbon, and topped with a beaded gift topper. Everything from the gift to the filler to the wrapping has significant impact on how your gift is perceived, so take the extra effort to make your gift look as beautiful as the sentiment that it represents.
Step 8: Include a handwritten note. No gift is complete without a handwritten note attached. You can write it on the back of a gift card, on a notecard, or if you have a lot to say, write it on some nice stationery. Of course, exceptions can be made for gifts purchased via internet, but even in these circumstances you should type in a message to be included with the gift. Just be sure to write something personal, and more than the standard, "Happy birthday!" or "With love,..." Invest the time to write something special.
Step 9: Send your gifts on time. No matter how amazing your gift is, if it is received months after the fact, it tends to lose its purpose. By planning ahead, you can avoid this last minute rush. First, consolidate all of your recurring events into a single calendar. Set aside one day per month to review the events of the upcoming month, and use this time to purchase, wrap and write notes. I also highly recommend creating a gift closet to take care of those moments when time truly gets the best of you. Here you can keep an emergency stock of gifts to give, along with extra wrapping supplies and cards.
Step 10: Look for inspiration everywhere. Gift giving is a form of art that is constantly being refined, and as you master these basic skills, refine your art by scouring the world for unique ways to make your gifts even more personal. Keep it in the back of your mind when searching through magazines, traveling, or wandering through a favorite store. You'll be amazed at the ideas that you generate when you least expect it. Take note of gifts that you appreciate, and think about what made that gift special. Inspiration is all around you; the key is training your mind to look at everything as a potential idea.
Congratulations! You are on your way to a lifetime of success, with adoring friends and loyal business relationships. Repeat after me: ‘My name is [insert your name here] and I am a joyful gift giver.’”
And now that we are all a little more clued up on the art of gift giving, allow me the opportunity of sharing what Eastern Gifts and Things cc can do to assist. First of all, we stock handcrafted gift items not easily found on the retail market. This will ensure that gifts purchased at our store will be unique quality handcrafted items. Secondly, we will gift wrap your purchase for you. All you need to do is specify the occasion in the comments field when placing your order, and we will do the rest. Third, we deliver anywhere in South Africa. So, if your family and friends have an occasion to be celebrated in Rivier-Sonder-End, and you are not able to make it, we will make sure your gift arrives on time – elegantly wrapped for the occasion at hand.
And, if you’re still not sure on a suitable gift – we also have gift vouchers and gift baskets that can be made up according to order. You tell us what you want and we do it for you!
Remember, we pack it, wrap it and deliver it – anywhere in South Africa.
Regards,
THE EASTERN GIFTS TEAM
Check out our blogs: http://easterngifts.blogspot.com/ or http://www.easterngifts.iblog.co.za/
“The Art of Gift Giving: A 10 Step Program
You're in a rut, a slump, a deep dark trench with no visible way out. Your gifts are no good, you've boycotted weddings and birthdays because you have no desire to purchase a gift, and you're already planning your holiday season getaway plan. When it comes to gift giving, my friend, you have a problem. Fear not. Follow this ten step program and begin the road to recovery. Watch as you emerge from your social cocoon and relish in your friends' admiration. Learn to enjoy giving gifts, and reap the rewards through strengthened relationships.
Step 1: Give gifts because you want to, not because you are obligated to do so. When you think of gift giving as a necessity, it automatically becomes an undesirable chore. Remind yourself that giving gifts is optional. Nothing requires you to do so. While society may have ingrained this thought in your mind, it's like leaving a tip for a waiter - if nothing merits a gift, then you have no obligation to give one.
Step 2: Take notes. Unless you were blessed with an incredible memory, keep notes throughout the year on appropriate gifts for people. If someone mentions a book that they've been dying to read, write it down. If a client made a comment about his favorite dessert, jot it down while it's fresh on your mind. When it comes time to give a gift, you'll appreciate having this information on hand, as it will make your gift search much easier when it comes time to selecting an appropriate gift.
Step 3: Celebrate the little things. Surprise people with an unexpected gift. These days, our mailboxes are bombarded with bills and junk mail, and there's nothing more pleasant than getting a small package without reason. Don't simply give gifts for standard occasions (birthdays, weddings, holidays); celebrate events that would otherwise go unnoticed. Share a friend's excitement over a new car by mixing her a CD with songs for the road. Congratulate a client on a promotion with a bottle of champagne. Such small gestures can have an enormous impact on a relationship, showing that you take notice of things that are important to other people with no expectation of reciprocity.
Step 4: Express yourself, your recipient, and your relationship. Remember, this is your one shot to give a gift to this person, on this date, for this occasion, so make it count. Don't waste this opportunity with something generic like a tie or bath products. They're overdone, and appear much less thoughtful than a gift that is geared specifically toward the particular event. Write down all of the characteristics of the recipient, of your relationship with them, and of the occasion, and begin to look for links to gifts. Gift giving is an art form, so embrace the opportunity to add in elements of your own personality as well. Incorporate your sense of humor or sentimental side, show off your photography skills, or share your love of writing. If you're giving gifts on behalf of an organization, incorporate the group's brand into your gifts. Define a way to make your gifts stand out and represent both sides of the relationship.
Step 5: Give something they would never buy themselves. There is nothing more satisfying than receiving a gift of pure luxury, excess, and indulgence. If you know someone loves the theater but tends to buy tickets in the back corner, allow them to enjoy a show while seated front and center. While certain circumstances may require you to give a necessity, spice it up with something fun. For example, when I first moved into my townhouse, my mom bought me (at my request) an Oreck vacuum cleaner. While I needed it, it wasn't a gift that I really wanted, but because she added in all sorts of fun scented carpet fresheners, I was actually excited about vacuuming...which I never thought possible.
Step 6: Keep the audience in mind. While you want a gift to be personal, think of the circumstances in which the gift will be given. This applies to both the recipient (i.e., don't give a Christmas ornament to a Jewish man in July) and those who will be witnessing the opening of the gift (don't give sexy lingerie to a woman when her parents are present).
Step 7: Present your gift well. Like anything in life, presentation can make or break your gift. Handing a Waterford crystal bowl over in a Wal-Mart bag doesn't have the same effect as when it's wrapped in beautiful paper, tied with coordinating ribbon, and topped with a beaded gift topper. Everything from the gift to the filler to the wrapping has significant impact on how your gift is perceived, so take the extra effort to make your gift look as beautiful as the sentiment that it represents.
Step 8: Include a handwritten note. No gift is complete without a handwritten note attached. You can write it on the back of a gift card, on a notecard, or if you have a lot to say, write it on some nice stationery. Of course, exceptions can be made for gifts purchased via internet, but even in these circumstances you should type in a message to be included with the gift. Just be sure to write something personal, and more than the standard, "Happy birthday!" or "With love,..." Invest the time to write something special.
Step 9: Send your gifts on time. No matter how amazing your gift is, if it is received months after the fact, it tends to lose its purpose. By planning ahead, you can avoid this last minute rush. First, consolidate all of your recurring events into a single calendar. Set aside one day per month to review the events of the upcoming month, and use this time to purchase, wrap and write notes. I also highly recommend creating a gift closet to take care of those moments when time truly gets the best of you. Here you can keep an emergency stock of gifts to give, along with extra wrapping supplies and cards.
Step 10: Look for inspiration everywhere. Gift giving is a form of art that is constantly being refined, and as you master these basic skills, refine your art by scouring the world for unique ways to make your gifts even more personal. Keep it in the back of your mind when searching through magazines, traveling, or wandering through a favorite store. You'll be amazed at the ideas that you generate when you least expect it. Take note of gifts that you appreciate, and think about what made that gift special. Inspiration is all around you; the key is training your mind to look at everything as a potential idea.
Congratulations! You are on your way to a lifetime of success, with adoring friends and loyal business relationships. Repeat after me: ‘My name is [insert your name here] and I am a joyful gift giver.’”
And now that we are all a little more clued up on the art of gift giving, allow me the opportunity of sharing what Eastern Gifts and Things cc can do to assist. First of all, we stock handcrafted gift items not easily found on the retail market. This will ensure that gifts purchased at our store will be unique quality handcrafted items. Secondly, we will gift wrap your purchase for you. All you need to do is specify the occasion in the comments field when placing your order, and we will do the rest. Third, we deliver anywhere in South Africa. So, if your family and friends have an occasion to be celebrated in Rivier-Sonder-End, and you are not able to make it, we will make sure your gift arrives on time – elegantly wrapped for the occasion at hand.
And, if you’re still not sure on a suitable gift – we also have gift vouchers and gift baskets that can be made up according to order. You tell us what you want and we do it for you!
Remember, we pack it, wrap it and deliver it – anywhere in South Africa.
Regards,
THE EASTERN GIFTS TEAM
Check out our blogs: http://easterngifts.blogspot.com/ or http://www.easterngifts.iblog.co.za/
Friday, October 19, 2007
Newsletter - October 2007
Good day,
We have plenty to share with you this month, as well as the wonderful news that for all the PE folk, Eastern Gifts and Things cc is proud to announce that we will - once again - have a stand at the Homemakers Expo at the Feather Market Centre next weekend. Do come and join us for what I am sure will be a wonderful festival!!
And before we get to the good stuff, just a reminder that our competition to win a R350.00 gift voucher is still running. All you have to do is sign up for our monthly newsletter and you could stand a chance to win this gift voucher. The competition closes 15 November 2007, so why not encourage your family, friends and colleagues to sign up as well? Simply follow the link to sign up: http://easterngifts.co.za/newsletter.php
I am not sure if you're aware of this, but Christmas is just on two months away. Well, 67 days to be exact. And my best friend yesterday informed me that she has already completed ALL her Christmas shopping. Now, I'm not sure how many of you will be as efficient as she is, or will wait till the last minute like most of us do, but allow me to share some excellent gift ideas from Eastern Gifts and Things cc (not only do we offer excellent gift ideas, but the chance to do all your Christmas shopping in the comfort from your home or office and we will take care of the rest).
We have gifts that cater for all tastes and all occasions, and we will deliver anywhere in the country.
Just some ideas:
These beautiful, handmade doorstops are an ideal and unique gift.
This beautiful cow door stop retails for R65.00. The beautiful pig door stop (seen below) also retails for R65.00.
This beautiful cow door stop retails for R65.00. The beautiful pig door stop (seen below) also retails for R65.00.
If you're looking for something a little larger, why not try this Fat Striped Cat Door Stop. This door stop is 24 x 14 x 48 cm and retails for R165.00 (see picture below).
Yes, we do cater for everyone and every occassion - and we will pack it, wrap it and deliver it - anywhere in South Africa.
This beautiful chess set is handmade and depicts the English and the Zulu's warring. This handmade chess set as a four to six week delivery time and retails for R425.00.
This beautiful chess set is handmade and depicts the English and the Zulu's warring. This handmade chess set as a four to six week delivery time and retails for R425.00.
Another idea for Christmas is
This elephant CD holder is also handmade and is very stylish - suited to anyone's home. The elephant CD holder can hold 10 CD's a side and retails for R475.00 (size: 35.5 x 20 x 24 cm).
Are you looking for a gift for the person in your life who is a cat lover? Well, we have a stunning range of cat figurines perfectly suited to this need. Our catch-all is a stunning gift idea - not only will it hold all your mail, post, but also has place for your keys, plus comes set to be fitted to any wall. The size is 16 x 7.5 x 65 cm and this elegantly made cat-figurine catch-all retails for R365.00.
In addition to the above, we also have a beautiful range of Christmas decorations, from snowmen napkin rings, to angels to Father Christmas - all handmade and not available on the retail market.
Please feel free to contact us if we can assist you in anyway.
Remember, we pack it, wrap it and deliver it - anywhere in South Africa.
Regards,
THE EASTERN GIFTS TEAM
Wednesday, September 12, 2007
Newsletter - Sep 2007
Good Afternoon,
As the old cliché goes - so much to do, so little time. We are, however, glad to see that spring is in the air and with summer just around the corner, there is so much to look forward to. There is also so much news to share from Eastern Gifts and Things cc.
Quote for Today: "The policy of being too cautious is the greatest risk of all," - Jawaharial Nehru
We have a new tagine recipe on our site, which is absolutely delicious. Click here to view. It is really delicious (yes, I have tried it) and although it sounds complex, is actually quite easy to prepare. And I must say, I am very impressed with the Emile Henry tagines. Not only can you use them on the stove (gas or electric), but also in the oven or even on the braai (for that truly authentic Moroccan cooking). The best part for me, though, is that the tagines are completely dishwasher safe. I put both the base and the lid of the tagine into the dishwasher and it cleans perfectly, every time. And if you're dieting and trying to get fit for summer - then a tagine is ideal for you. Tagine recipes are extremely healthy and good for you. The larger tagines can cater for up to 8 people, depending on what you're making. I've made a chicken and almond tagine (recipe also on our website) for 8 people, and still had some leftover for lunch the next day. The smaller tagines can quite easily cater for 4 to 6 people; depending on what you're making (a vegetable tagine goes much further than a chicken or meat tagine). Why not try some of our recipes on our site and let us know what you think - all feedback received will be posted on our site and included in our next newsletter. E-mail us on info@easterngifts.co.za.
We at Eastern Gifts and Things cc are very proud to announce two new product lines available through our website.
As the old cliché goes - so much to do, so little time. We are, however, glad to see that spring is in the air and with summer just around the corner, there is so much to look forward to. There is also so much news to share from Eastern Gifts and Things cc.
Quote for Today: "The policy of being too cautious is the greatest risk of all," - Jawaharial Nehru
We have a new tagine recipe on our site, which is absolutely delicious. Click here to view. It is really delicious (yes, I have tried it) and although it sounds complex, is actually quite easy to prepare. And I must say, I am very impressed with the Emile Henry tagines. Not only can you use them on the stove (gas or electric), but also in the oven or even on the braai (for that truly authentic Moroccan cooking). The best part for me, though, is that the tagines are completely dishwasher safe. I put both the base and the lid of the tagine into the dishwasher and it cleans perfectly, every time. And if you're dieting and trying to get fit for summer - then a tagine is ideal for you. Tagine recipes are extremely healthy and good for you. The larger tagines can cater for up to 8 people, depending on what you're making. I've made a chicken and almond tagine (recipe also on our website) for 8 people, and still had some leftover for lunch the next day. The smaller tagines can quite easily cater for 4 to 6 people; depending on what you're making (a vegetable tagine goes much further than a chicken or meat tagine). Why not try some of our recipes on our site and let us know what you think - all feedback received will be posted on our site and included in our next newsletter. E-mail us on info@easterngifts.co.za.
We at Eastern Gifts and Things cc are very proud to announce two new product lines available through our website.
- The first is exclusively available on our site - you will not find these in store anywhere in South Africa. They are unique handmade pots. Each pot weighs about 3.5kg and each design is unique. To view and place your order - click here. In time, we will be adding the most beautiful handmade chess sets as well. So, watch this space.
- The second range of products are handmade wooden candle holders. All candle holders are made to order and you can choose the stain, colour and wood. These candle holders are absolutely beautiful and ideal for any home. To view - click here.
Another exciting venture Eastern Gifts has embarked on is an affiliate program. So, if you have a website and would like to earn additional income, why not apply for our affiliate program? We pay 10% commission on all sales (excluding delivery charges and gift wrapping). If you are interested, click here to complete our application form. However, if you don't have a website, but you would still like to earn some additional income, you can register as an agent. E-mail us for an agent's application form on info@easterngifts.co.za.
I know you are going to think I'm getting ahead of myself now, but Christmas is just around the corner. With only three months to go, and plenty of end-of-year functions and planning for the holidays, it is best to start planning early. We have a beautiful range of Christmas gifts that we will deliver anywhere in South Africa. You can have up to five delivery addresses linked to your account and we accept both Visa and MasterCard. Or, if you'd prefer, you are able to pay via EFT as well (banking details will be e-mailed to you when placing an order).
Competition Time And finally, we are running a competition for our newsletters. One lucky subscriber will stand the chance to win a R350.00 gift voucher. So, pass the word onto all your friends, family and colleagues. You can sign up for our newsletter, without having to register as a client. However, you will need to sign up as a client in order to make a purchase on our site. To sign up for a newsletter - click here. To sign up as a client - click here. Competition closes 15 November 2007.
Here's to a wonderful spring and summer ahead - and here's to seeing you online again soon J Remember, we pack it, wrap it and deliver it - anywhere in South Africa.
For all your home decor, kitchenware and gifting requirements - log onto www.easterngifts.co.za.
Regards,
THE EASTERN GIFTS TEAM
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Monday, August 13, 2007
What's the Worst Gift You've ever Received?
What’s the worst gift you’ve ever gotten? Thanks to www.health24.com, I found this interesting article on “10 bad gift ideas for Christmas”, although I’m sure these tips are pretty much applicable throughout the year.
10 bad gift ideas for Christmas
The gifts we give others say quite a lot about how we see our relationships with them. Can't think of anything to give someone? Chances are you also don't have all that much to say to them. But there are gifts, which would be better not to give.
10 bad gift ideas for Christmas
The gifts we give others say quite a lot about how we see our relationships with them. Can't think of anything to give someone? Chances are you also don't have all that much to say to them. But there are gifts, which would be better not to give.
- Recycled gifts. Last year you got something you didn't like, stuffed it into a drawer and now you are passing it on. Chances are the new recipient will also not like it – and who knows, it might find its way back to you next Christmas.
- Very expensive personal gifts. These include things like jewellery. You could find yourself spending R1000 on a ring for your loved one and they don't like the particular style, shape, colour of what you bought. Ask someone what they like before you spend so much money. It is better to spoil the surprise than to waste thousands.
- Three of a kind. Right, you've got three sisters and little time to traipse around the shops looking for individual gifts, so you end up buying three of the same thing. Thing is, they're all round the same Christmas tree, and once the first one has opened her present, the surprise is gone for the other two. By all means buy three similar things, but identical is not a good idea.
- Noisy toys. On Christmas Day, most families gather in large groups – often in not very large houses. Giving a three-year-old a drum might just spoil the whole day for everybody. Same goes for plastic trumpets and very squeaky plastic animals. Cheap plastic toys also usually don't survive the rough-and-tumble of Christmas Day. Rather go for something solid and wooden – and quiet.
- Last-minute gifts. By the evening of the 24th of December, the shops are empty, and what remains on the shelves, is either ugly, or extremely expensive. You could find yourself having to fork out a fortune for something which is not ideal, or particularly wanted.
- It's-the-thought-that-counts gifts. This usually means the present is dead horrible or definitely unwanted. Or a last-minute affair, just so you don't arrive empty-handed. Sometimes it is better to arrive empty-handed than with something that is so obviously a last-minute thing.
- Chocolates. Always a bad idea. Most people are only too aware of how much weight they are gaining over Christmas, and receiving a further temptation under the tree only makes them even more depressed. Furthermore, when someone receives chocolates, there is subtle pressure on them to open it and share it out, so they don't actually receive a gift at all.
- Socks and handkerchiefs and underwear. These are personal items that people like choosing for themselves. Unless you have very definite instructions on exactly what someone likes, don't go down this road. Rather give a gift voucher and let them choose for themselves.
- Sale books and CDs. These can sometimes be a great success, but only if you keep in mind what someone's tastes are. If you come across Shakespeare's collected works for a mere R49,99, don't give it to someone who has never read anything more taxing than the sports page of the newspaper. It will remain unread and unappreciated. Your grandfather will also quite likely remain unimpressed with Depeche Mode, regardless of whether it was a bargain or not.
- Break-the-bank gifts. Before you consider buying someone a very expensive gift, try and find out more or less what they plan spending on your gift. It is embarrassing if you give a potential girlfriend three CDs and she gives you a pair of socks. – (Susan Erasmus, Health24)
Why not e-mail us on info@easterngifts.co.za and tell us about the worst gift you've ever received?
Gift Giving
Well, I know it seems a few months off, but before we know it, Christmas will be here. And even before Christmas arrives, September will be here – allegedly the month with the highest number of birthdays (can’t possibly think of a reasonJ. And weddings will start – spring weddings are very popular. And the one thing all these potential events have in common? Gifts. Whether you need to get a gift for a birthday, Christmas or a wedding, gift buying can be stressful.
Firstly, let’s look at what a gift is. “A gift or present is the transfer of money, goods, etc., without the need for compensation that is involved in trade. A gift is a voluntary act which does not require anything in return. Even though it involves possibly a social expectation of reciprocity, or a return in the form of prestige or power, a gift is meant to be free. In many human societies, the act of mutually exchanging gifts may contribute to social cohesion. … By extension the term gift can refer to anything that makes the other more happy or less sad, especially as a favour, including forgiveness and kindness (even when the other is not kind).”http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gift
Buying a gift is never easy, because as we all know, a gift reflects our perception of the person we are giving a gift to and our relationship with that person. Ever noticed how newly weds will be extravagant when buying their new husband or wife a gift, but couples who have been married for twenty or more years are usually not quite so excited about gift giving for their spouses? How do the gifts here reflect the attitudes towards the relationship? Interesting question.
Buying a gift is a lot easier when you know that person really well, than buying a gift for an acquaintance or business associate. The easiest place to start, whether you know that person well or not, is to assess what you know about their interests and hobbies. Is there any scope for a gift in what they are interested in? For example, if the person you’re buying a gift for is interesting in reading, surely a book would be a good choice? Or if they enjoy cooking, what about a new recipe book? If you can’t make any decisions there, try thinking about things they may enjoy but would never treat themselves to. For example, a busy mom might not feel comfortable spending her money on a back massage for herself. This then would be a wonderful gift for her. Or what about a Dad who would love a leather jacket, but would rather spend his money on the home or his children. Giving these types of gifts show that you understand the person and their situations well – what a pleasure to receive something you’ve always wanted, but could never spend the money on.
Remember, that when giving a gift – any gift – for any occasion – it is not about the value of the gift in monetary terms. It may not even be about a “physical gift”. A true gift has meaning and a personal value to the recipient. The best gift to buy a friend that I know is any bath stuff – bath oils, bubble bath, bath perfume, anything. She loves it and can never have too much of it. So, a small bottle of bubble bath will hold immense value for her. However, don’t ever give her something for her home. She feels that birthdays and Christmas are for personal gifts – not for the home. So, she wouldn’t appreciate a cutlery set. Get to know the person you’re buying a gift for.
Eastern Gifts and Things has a unique range of gifts to suit every person and/or occasion. And if you can’t find a suitable gift, there is always the option of purchasing a gift voucher. Visiting our site, which has full e-Commerce capabilities, will give you a lot of ideas, some of which fall within the range of “common” items, but these are items that are always popular and worth a thought.
Be creative when it comes to gift giving. Another friend I know doesn’t mind what the gift is, as long as it is wrapped beautifully with a pretty bow. That will seriously make her day (and we do offer a gift wrapping service).
Sometimes, though, we come across those individuals in society who already have everything. And money is no object to them. Or, we could come across those that we have to buy a gift for, but we’ve never met. For example, going to a wedding on a date, but you’ve never met the bridal party before. A simple token gift will probably suffice, but thinking out of the box could give you some wonderful ideas.
We have taken the liberty of listing some gift ideas below (some on our site, and others just as ideas) to aid you in your gift giving this year.
Some Ideas
Firstly, let’s look at what a gift is. “A gift or present is the transfer of money, goods, etc., without the need for compensation that is involved in trade. A gift is a voluntary act which does not require anything in return. Even though it involves possibly a social expectation of reciprocity, or a return in the form of prestige or power, a gift is meant to be free. In many human societies, the act of mutually exchanging gifts may contribute to social cohesion. … By extension the term gift can refer to anything that makes the other more happy or less sad, especially as a favour, including forgiveness and kindness (even when the other is not kind).”
Buying a gift is never easy, because as we all know, a gift reflects our perception of the person we are giving a gift to and our relationship with that person. Ever noticed how newly weds will be extravagant when buying their new husband or wife a gift, but couples who have been married for twenty or more years are usually not quite so excited about gift giving for their spouses? How do the gifts here reflect the attitudes towards the relationship? Interesting question.
Buying a gift is a lot easier when you know that person really well, than buying a gift for an acquaintance or business associate. The easiest place to start, whether you know that person well or not, is to assess what you know about their interests and hobbies. Is there any scope for a gift in what they are interested in? For example, if the person you’re buying a gift for is interesting in reading, surely a book would be a good choice? Or if they enjoy cooking, what about a new recipe book? If you can’t make any decisions there, try thinking about things they may enjoy but would never treat themselves to. For example, a busy mom might not feel comfortable spending her money on a back massage for herself. This then would be a wonderful gift for her. Or what about a Dad who would love a leather jacket, but would rather spend his money on the home or his children. Giving these types of gifts show that you understand the person and their situations well – what a pleasure to receive something you’ve always wanted, but could never spend the money on.
Remember, that when giving a gift – any gift – for any occasion – it is not about the value of the gift in monetary terms. It may not even be about a “physical gift”. A true gift has meaning and a personal value to the recipient. The best gift to buy a friend that I know is any bath stuff – bath oils, bubble bath, bath perfume, anything. She loves it and can never have too much of it. So, a small bottle of bubble bath will hold immense value for her. However, don’t ever give her something for her home. She feels that birthdays and Christmas are for personal gifts – not for the home. So, she wouldn’t appreciate a cutlery set. Get to know the person you’re buying a gift for.
Eastern Gifts and Things has a unique range of gifts to suit every person and/or occasion. And if you can’t find a suitable gift, there is always the option of purchasing a gift voucher. Visiting our site, which has full e-Commerce capabilities, will give you a lot of ideas, some of which fall within the range of “common” items, but these are items that are always popular and worth a thought.
Be creative when it comes to gift giving. Another friend I know doesn’t mind what the gift is, as long as it is wrapped beautifully with a pretty bow. That will seriously make her day (and we do offer a gift wrapping service).
Sometimes, though, we come across those individuals in society who already have everything. And money is no object to them. Or, we could come across those that we have to buy a gift for, but we’ve never met. For example, going to a wedding on a date, but you’ve never met the bridal party before. A simple token gift will probably suffice, but thinking out of the box could give you some wonderful ideas.
We have taken the liberty of listing some gift ideas below (some on our site, and others just as ideas) to aid you in your gift giving this year.
Some Ideas
- Buying for the home: This could be tricky if you don’t personally know that person’s taste or style or their preference in home décor. If you do get a gift for the home, look out for items that are unusual, interesting, collectable when choosing things like: prints, original paintings, ornaments, sculptures, lamps, foot-rests, rugs, decorative tables, table linen, mirrors, garden ornaments, water features.
- Other ideas area: a collection of pool towels, bathroom luxuries (like a towel warmer), garden recliners, plants, magazine racks, wine racks, hat stands, coat racks, CD stands.
- Non-“physical gifts”: Like a massage, or a facial. Try something new and exotic, like a Swedish massage or a Indian Head massage.
- Give them a new sport or hobby to be interested in: Buy them some lessons and / or the basic equipment needed to get started.
- Help them grow: enroll them in a skills training course, personal development programme or any variation on this theme. Even a few sessions with a therapist could make an ideal gift for someone that wants it but can't afford it themselves.
- Try something completely new: Scuba diving, Kite skiing, Surfing, Flying (pilot's license).
- Try a new experience: Weekend away or mini holiday, Safari, Bungy jump, Helicopter flip, Cultural tour, Tickets for two to a live performance or concert, Dinner for two at a special restaurant, Tickets to an important rugby match or sports tournament (whatever their favourite sport – and remember, the focus is on their favourite sport, this is not an opportunity for you to go watch your favourite team play rugby:-)).
- Organise for them to: learn or experience anything that they have longed for – fulfill a wish. Change a life. Dare to be different!
- Give your time. Sometimes all that people want is to spend an afternoon or an evening with you.
- Gift vouchers. Gift vouchers that can be redeemed, especially to be used when you just simply either do not have the time or cannot think of something to buy. Gift vouchers also come in handy when you know the recipient is looking for something specific that you cannot find. For example, they are looking specifically for a type of Noritake design, but you don’t know what it is. Giving a gift voucher will allow that person to choose what it is specifically that they want or are looking for.
- Homemade gifts: People often balk at the idea of handmade gifts, yet these can be the most meaningful of all. The key is to choose a gift that you believe the person would enjoy and to make it properly.
- Edibles: A selection of home-made biscuits, preserves, jams, chutneys, breads, sweets or whatever your talent allows. Many of these require no talent at all and a small selection, presented on a nice yet inexpensive tray or in a pretty container, makes for a meaningful gift that also has a lasting element. Ideal for when you have a group that you want to give small gifts to, like book club members, wine club members, neighbours, etc.
- Gift baskets: There are plenty of on-line gift baskets and Eastern Gifts and Things will very soon be selling its own gift baskets. These can be tailor made to the recipient and can include lovely bath creams, or dried fruit and biltong, etc.
If you have any comments on stunning gift ideas or what you would like for Christmas, birthday or wedding – please let us know by e-mailing info@easterngifts.co.za.
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